Friday, February 15, 2008

Maybe he forgot?

My Valentine's Day was okay. My boyfriend took off work and we spent some time together. It was nice because I usually don't get to see him until the weekend so some time a little earlier was right up my alley. It's funny, but I was thinking when my brothers texted me their belated birthday wishes, my father has not even told me happy birthday. I told one of my brothers that our dad had not called, and he said he would call him and tell him. But the truth is I don't even want him to call me now. I feel like it is too late now. I do not thing any real parent would forget their child's birthday. On the other hand, he has called me every year until now, so maybe I shouldn't be so harsh. He lives in Texas, so it’s not I ever get to see him on my birthday, so the least he can do is call. Something inside of me is saying that he did not call on purpose. Maybe he was trying to make a point or something. He is always saying that I do not call him, but I call him more than he calls me. Not to mention the fact that I called him this year for his birthday. Oh well, what's done is done.

1 comment:

Tanjarae D. said...

hey girl....i understand how you feel perfectly. My father has done this numerous time throughout my life. Some people who have not went through this would probably say that we just need to grow up and act like adults but hey people just don't understand. Everything will be ok. Love ya